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How to: 12 Step meetings as a findom addict
It feels daunting. But you will be glad you did – there is more common ground to be found than you may think. And it is a wonderful opportunity to work with boundaries and being vulnerable.
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Myth #2: Post nut clarity
This phrase is used by dominants and finsubs alike. Submissives say it was “that moment I realised what I was doing”.
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Myth #1: It is in your genes to be a findom addict
Powerlessness is a recurring theme within the findom scene. This is striking since admitting powerlessness is the first step of 12 step addiction recovery programs. This myth uses, or exploits for nefarious purposes, that powerlessness.
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Can I recover from findom addiction while staying in touch with a dom/-me?
Short answer: Highly unlikely. Submissives in recovery from findom addiction often ask themselves this question. The obvious danger is that this can be (and nearly always is) a backdoor to the addiction. The idea of staying in touch with a dominant in that case, is a way of negotiating with the addiction.
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Types of dominants in findom
Dominants in findom can be categorized into three types: the ethical, the only-for-profit, and the troubled.
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Can I do findom in a healthy way?
Short answer: If you are addicted to it, no.
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Checklist: Am I addicted to findom?
This checklist is hosted on the FAA website.
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The Twelve Characteristics of Findom Addiction
The Twelve Characteristics of Findom Addiction is hosted on the FAA website.
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Why to avoid having a findom addict as your submissive
Addicts are the worst finsubs. How can dominants avoid dealing with them? Why should you? And how you can help.
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